Category Archives: Conscious Spending

Have I Got Frugality Burn-out?

Since picking up a nasty bout of flu in Finland this Christmas, I haven’t been firing on all four cylinders.

In fact the last 6 weeks I’ve been completely under the weather. No running, reduced blogging, little decluttering and zero motivation to do pretty-much-anything. The doctor’s verdict is pleurisy.

I think I may have another ailment also. Is there such a thing as frugality burn-out?

Being frugal suddenly feels like a chore. It’s not fun. It’s always been fun.

On my way to Aldi this morning (which nearly didn’t happen as I lay on the sofa after the school-run) I popped into my previous, more expensive supermarket. It’s St Georges day in the UK tomorrow, and the Kids are dressing up in red, white and blue. This supermarket has a range of good quality but sensibly priced kids clothing.

I didn’t make it to Aldi. I admitted defeat and made a few emergency purchases to get us through the next couple of days at Chez Wright.

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Now, I’m not a ready meal fan – as this post explains. But can you see today’s lunch?

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Guess What? Guess Who!

My favourite game, when I was a young girl, was Guess Who. We’re talking the 80′s here.

Because I try to relive my own childhood through my children ;-) I proudly presented my 7-year-old daughter with a new version of the game.

Disappointed! (imagine this said by Kevin Kline in a Fish called Wanda – I’m definitely an 80′s gal).

My motto…If it ain’t broke don’t fix it…. Oh, but they did…

So, a woman on a mission, I tasked my Mom (a regular charity-shop-shopper) with tracking down a retro version of my much-loved Guess Who.

Now this was a while back. So much so, I’d almost forgotten I’d made the request.

Then this post popped up over at The Frugal Girl, last Friday, and it all came back to me. What a beautiful image of a retro Connect 4…

Then lookie here what turned up Tuesday…

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Oh yes, I love such random occurrences.

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There’s Another Way To Show You Care

I may have mentioned I’m drowning in stuff. Therefore I do not need more stuff. So I’m wondering, do others need more stuff? Particularly stuff they haven’t requested?

When did buying something ‘to keep’ become a good way to show you care?

I haven’t always had this mindset, I’ve done this, purchased things for others ‘to keep’. This is how I was raised. Even Easter consisted of me receiving a chocolate egg in a mug – something to keep (I ended up collecting aka hoarding mugs as a teenager but that’s a whole other story!). But it was a different time. I didn’t have a lot, and what I did have arrived at Christmas and Easter – interestingly! My birthday’s apparently were relatively present/gift dry. Although I don’t remember that, I just reminisce about the fantastic parties I had each year. My Mom later told me she couldn’t afford to buy gifts and host parties. My memories would suggest she made a good call.

What I did have lasted for years. There wasn’t a constant influx of stuff.

I’m resolute. This year will see even more of the gifts I give being consumable and when my skill base allows home-made.

It’s already begun. So far we’ve gifted a Birthday cake

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The End Of The Spend

Today, apparently, is Cyber Monday.

Really? Oh yes. I should be hitting the keyboard with vigour ordering from every retailer from here to Timbuctoo.

Am I doing that? Well no, I’m hitting those keys, but to post my thoughts on consumer spending this time of year.

Without a doubt I’m slightly biased. I hate shopping whatever the time of year. There are only 2 exceptions. I don’t mind doing my Aldi shop once a week, and I also do like a bit of craft supply purchasing. Both shopping trips enable me to collate items which ultimately will be greater than the sum of their parts. That works for me.

(confession – I’m also a bit susceptible to ski apparel shopping. I get butterflies looking at ski socks and base-layers. It’s not so much the purchases made, it’s the anticipation of what is to come ;-) )

As we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving in the UK, we also do not participate in Black Friday. Although I wonder whether over time the UK’s shopping calendar will officially acknowledge such a day now that consuming is done on a global platform.

The antidote to Black Friday is Buy Nothing Day. Which we do have in the UK. Although if you asked anyone if they knew about it, currently in the circles I frequent I would expect the answer to be ‘no’.

Black Friday always generates an array on anti-consumerism posts from the blogs that I read.

I particularly liked this one;

Challenge: Buy Nothing Until 2013

Okay, so everyone and his aspiring-Buddhist dog reads Zen Habits and you may have seen it already, but in case you haven’t…. (oh yeah who am I kidding?:-))

In the blogging compartment of my brain, I’d already titled a post ‘The End Of The Spend’. About mid-November I’d had enough. Not that I buy a huge amount of gifts, but just the small amount of purchasing I’d done, to date, had exhausted my consumer-resistant mind.

Leo’s post coupled with my current mindset has bought me to the conclusion I will be participating in his challenge.

Any items that I need to purchase for Christmas boxes/gifts will be done by Friday (and I’m hoping this is minimal).

From 1st December I’ll be focusing on what is important to me, creating cards and gifts, baking, decorating the house and spending time with the Kids.

And, of course, spending time with you Guys over here at my virtual home. There’ll be lots of festive fun to post about. I’m looking forward to it!

How about you? How are the holiday preparations going your end?

You Manage What You Measure

You manage what you measure.

As boring and clichéd as it sounds, the above statement is true.

I was resoundingly reminded of this just last week.

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The Simple Guide To Conscious Spending Revisited

As we in the UK march toward the Diamond Jubilee (I have red, white and blue cakes planned!) it reminded me of a post I wrote over a year ago now.

Why I am a bit like the Queen

The above post links to a Guest Post I wrote for So Much More Life. It has never been posted here, so I thought it might be nice to revisit it. Enjoy!

The Simple Guide To Conscious Spending – Originally published March 2011.

For me conscious spending is knowing where every penny goes, or at least every pound. It’s about value for money, spending on what matters to my family and me and not frittering away cash. It’s not about being frugal, it’s about eliminating waste – I don’t mind spending money but I hate wasting money.

Due to living our family life this way it has meant that much of the last 18 years has been spent debt free (I am 36 now). Conscious spending has enabled us to travel, have lot’s of experiences and ultimately it meant that after our first child was born I could quit the 9-5, which I did. It has given us choices.

By consciously spending, rather than consuming, a debt free life is attainable. Every cent not spent makes a difference. It may seem insignificant at the time, but it’s not.

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Looking For Inspiration?

My writing mojo has taken a hit this week. I have to be in the right frame of mind to write. My thoughts have been elsewhere. This is not something I’m proud of. I feel I should be able to write-through whatever life’s throws at me, but I can’t.

So, looking for inspiration I put out a call to action on Facebook. To which Shelley kindly responded. It was suggested I post about saving on electricity by line drying etc…

Well…

I do line dry, but I don’t think I could write an entire post about it. However Shelleys’ much-needed suggestion made me think.

What is it that we do each day that makes a difference, not only to our wallet, but to reduce waste of resources?

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SuperScrimping – Reducing Your Grocery Budget Plus Simple Spaghetti Bolognese

Channel 4 are showing a great series at the moment called SuperScrimpers.

I’m loving that being frugal is now considered ‘on trend’! Yay! Finally!

As one of those that has been part of this growing community for 3 years plus, it’s refreshing.  What it does mean, however, that as an experienced SuperScrimper the show can’t teach me much I don’t already know.  Disclaimer ;-) – I don’t scrimp in all areas of my life. I don’t mind spending money but I hate wasting money! It’s about spending on what really is significant to you, not frittering it away here and there, but rather practicing Conscious Spending.

Those who have been following this blog for some time will know that in September 2011 I decided to reduce my grocery budget by 50% through choice.

I think now might be a good time for an update, and to share a healthy and nutritious recipe that would make any SuperScrimper proud.

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SuperScrimping – Patching It Up And Polishing It Out

This post was originally planned for yesterday but I’m glad I delayed it, as last night I watched SuperScrimpers on Channel 4.

It would appear that the subject of this post is becoming popular once more.

Patching it up, polishing it out, making do and mending. And of course reducing what we waste, be that food, cloth or just items that we would once have disposed of, that we can breath new life into.

Repair rather than replace.

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